Author: Publish date: Jan 6, Taking him at his word is the best way to avoid getting stuck in the friend zone. Comment More often than not, dating opens women up to a world of confusion that too often ends in hurt. What we hope for are mutual declarations and a bashful relationship status change, but what we too often receive is a noncommittal disclaimer that obvious attraction and flirtation do not always a future boyfriend make. At some point or another, we have to get some clarification as to what exactly is going on here or risk getting stuck in the ambiguous friend zone. The first time, I was crushed but continued with the undefined relationship. Time eventually muddled us together, and we did become some sort of constant dating entity—but a catastrophic one. Chlipala, LMFT, a marriage and family therapist. He may still want to see what his options are, or he wants to focus on his career.
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