January 11, at a. A married woman can decide to spice up her life or look for interesting diversions outside her marriage, so can a man. Sometimes, it becomes necessary to look for married dating sites, maybe for pastime, adventure, fun, or fulfillment due to one reason or the other. Monogamy gets boring at times for some people while for some, variety is the spice of life. Little wonder there are more and more married people seeking to operate open marriages to suit their desires.